Be the Reliable Person at a Funeral
Jordan B Peterson about the fact that even a hard fate like the death of a loved ones offers an opportunity to be a role model and take over responsibility:
You want to be the useful person at a funeral. […] You want to be the person on who’s shoulder people cry. […] It is really something to be the reliable person at a funeral.
Jordan B Peterson, 2017 Personality 22: Conclusion: Psychology and Belief, 48:07